Examples of Things to Give

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Buying gifts for in-laws can seem a little (okay, a lot) intimidating, especially if you're a newlywed shopping for your spouse's family for the first time. We're here to show you just how easy it actually is to find the perfect gift for your mother-in-law, no matter the occasion. Keep reading for our top shopping tips, as well as our favorite gift ideas for any mother-in-law (yep, even the one who has everything).

How to Choose the Perfect MIL Gift

Picking out presents for your partner's parents is something we're pretty much masters of (and lucky for you, we're more than happy to share our expertise). When it comes to buying a gift for your mother-in-law, the first thing you should do is reflect on your relationship. If you've grown close, choose a gift that represents how you bonded or a favorite memory you have together. If you're still working on strengthening your relationship, choose a gift that shows her you want to get to know her better. An activity you can both do together, like a cookery or art class, is a great option.

Still feeling stuck? Take your mom-in-law's interests into account. Does she love crafting? A knitting or crocheting kit is a nice idea. Or maybe she's an avid reader. In that case, a book club subscription (check out Cratejoy) or a rare edition of her favorite novel (have a browse on Biblio) is sure to be a hit. Buying a gift for your mother-in-law that reflects her interests is a great way of showing her you're really paying attention.

Finally, it's sometimes helpful to take the occasion into account when buying a gift. For example, if you're on the lookout for a wedding present for your future mother-in-law, something sentimental is typically expected. (Check out our top mother-of-the-bride and mother-of-the-groom gifts for inspiration.) Or, if you're shopping for a Mother's Day gift for your mother-in-law, presents that promote self-care or celebrate her mom status are always appreciated. For birthday and holiday mother-in-law gifts, really anything goes so long as you're considering her interests.

The Best Gifts to Give Your Mother-in-Law

Feeling a little more inspired to pick out something meaningful? That's what we're here for! Start shopping with some of our editor-approved mother-in-law gifts below, from personalized serveware to wine-themed presents.

Self-Watering Planter

We're starting our mother-in-law gift guide on a high with this amazing indoor garden. The Click & Grow smart garden is a wildly popular product for a reason. It makes growing veggies, herbs, flowers or whatever a simple task, without the need for constant care, a backyard or even good weather. This clever little device automates light, water and nutrient levels for optimal growing conditions.

Monthly Tea Delivery

Surprise your spouse's mom with a monthly delivery of tea from around the world. You can download and print your gift card for the tea subscription, or schedule an email on the perfect date. The service is tailored to her tastes and includes add-ons like recipes from tea experts, tasting notes and exclusive discounts. A tea subscription is an especially nice Hanukkah or Christmas gift idea for your mother-in-law. Why? Because there's nothing better than a hot brew on a cold winter day.

Symbolic Flower Pendant

As far as meaningful gifts for your mom-in-law go, these pretty pendants take the cake. Each one is stamped with the birth flower for a different month of the year, such as daisies for April and peonies for September. All you have to do is select the one that reflects her birth month (you don't even need to know the date). They come with a silver, gold-filled or rose gold-filled finish. Plus, you can choose between two different pendant sizes and chain lengths to suit her style.

Virtual Cooking Class

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Does she love to get creative in the kitchen? If that's the case, we can't think of a better Mother's Day, holiday or birthday gift for your mother-in-law than a virtual cooking lesson. Sur la Table has lots of interesting classes to choose from, so there's bound to be something she'll love. Plus, the price of a class is per household, so you can join her if it's something you'd like to do together.

Beautiful Glass Keepsake

Spruce up her home decor with a meaningful decoration that honors your new family ties. These unique globes represent the special relationship you've built with your other half's nearest and dearest. It's one of our favorite gift ideas for a mother-in-law (or father-in-law, if he's on your list too) no matter the occasion.

Ancestry DNA Kit

Is your mother-in-law fascinated by her family history? If she has unanswered questions about her heritage, an AncestryDNA kit will help her better understand her roots. This insanely cool present can trace her ancestors' journeys over time, connect her with long-lost relatives and more.

Versatile Spice Collection

If her home is always filled with the scent of cinnamon or freshly baked gingerbread during the holidays, you can bet this deluxe spice collection will almost immediately be put to use. It features 13 popular baking ingredients, including vanilla bean sugar, ground ginger and Dutch cocoa powder.

Wine-Tasting Experience

What's the next best thing to taking your mom-in-law on a wine-tasting trip to California? Bringing wine country to her! This bestselling collection of wine mixers will transport her to the Golden State with every sip.

Beauty Advent Calendar

Want to really impress her this year? An early Christmas present is sure to put your MIL in the holiday spirit (and put you on the nice list). This Advent calendar is stuffed with a delightful surprise for each day of December right up to the 25th. She'll enjoy makeup, haircare and skincare products from much-loved brands like ELEMIS, Glow Recipe and Medik8.

Effective Wine Chiller

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If your mom-in-law enjoys a glass of wine (or two—no judgment here!) with dinner, a sleek vino chiller will come in very handy. This stainless steel accessory fully encompasses a bottle of wine, keeping it at the perfect chilly temp for around four hours. And thanks to the chic design, it won't take away from her carefully planned tablescape—we're sold.

Snug Wool Slippers

When deciding what to get your mother-in-law for the holidays, take inspiration from the season. Cold weather calls for cozy accessories like sweaters, scarves and—you guessed it—slippers! The soft wool lining and durable rubber sole of these water-resistant moccasins is a match made in heaven. Slippers are also one of the best Mother's Day gifts for your mother-in-law, since they encourage her to relax and enjoy some me-time.

Fun Learning Experience

Looking for a present your mother-in-law can have fun with? Sign her up for an "Uncommon Experience" by Uncommon Goods. There are lots of unique online activities to choose from, including flower arranging, painting and astrology chart reading. Most of the classes come with a physical gift set that'll make taking part a breeze.

Tasty Truffle Selection

On the hunt for a gift for the mother-in-law who has everything? A box of decadent chocolate truffles is a delightful gesture anyone can appreciate. This particular selection is available as a 12- or 24-piece set and includes six mouth-watering flavors (we'll take the cinnamon pecan, please).

Mini Luggage Case

Get this unique gift for the mother-in-law who loves to travel. The adorable miniature suitcase is designed for safely stowing toiletries, makeup and other small-but-essential items when she's on the go. It features the exact same durable and lightweight polycarbonate shell as the brand's regular-size luggage. Plus, it comes in six trendy colorways.

Soft Cashmere Gloves

Pretty much anything made of cashmere is a nice mother-in-law Christmas gift. Like we said before, cozy items are always appreciated during the holidays. These super-soft gloves are 65 grams of glorious cashmere she can wear all winter (and every winter to come). Psst, get $50 off any purchase of $250 or more until December 31 with our exclusive code THEKNOT50.

Ornate Measuring Cups

Still not sure what to get your mother-in-law? Let us introduce you to these extra-beautiful measuring cups. With a fresh garden-inspired design, they look too good to hide away in a cupboard. The set includes four separate measures for 1 cup, 1/2 cup, 1/3 cup and 1/4 cup.

Cozy Throw Blanket

Running out of holiday gift ideas for your mother-in-law? Try this luxuriously soft throw blanket that's super easy to care for. She can toss it right in the wash and it won't shrink, pill or wrinkle.

Engraved Chopping Board

A personalized serving and cutting board is an especially good gift for your mother-in-law if she spends a lot of time in the kitchen. She can use this one-of-a-kind cherry wood board to prepare food as well as serve appetizers, charcuterie and desserts to her loved ones.

Personalized Desk Calendar

If she savors family photos, she'll love a personalized calendar. This chic walnut option comes with a peg stand, perfect for propping up on her desk. Fill it with snapshots of the whole family—including you, her grandkids and any other loved ones.

Dazzling Diamond Earrings

Regardless of whether she considers diamonds as her best friend or not, a pair of stunning pavé diamond earrings would make any mom-in-law smile. These contemporary huggies are subtle enough to wear on the daily, but shiny enough to make her feel like a million bucks. They're available in 14-karat white, yellow or rose gold.

Handy Travel Pillow

This one-of-a-kind neck pillow will help your MIL catch up on much-needed sleep when she's on the go. But don't just take our word for it, check out the awesome five-star reviews!

Thoughtful Gift Set

The best gifts for your mother-in-law are the ones that reflect her interests. If she never leaves the house without her lippy, she'll appreciate the whimsy behind these lipstick-shaped chocolates. The gift set also includes gorgeous violet flowers in a display-ready planter.

Playful Holiday Ornament

If your S.O.'s mom has a sense of humor, funny mother-in-law gifts aren't off limits. This custom ornament is a hilarious Christmas present for your mother-in-law that reads: "Being my mother-in-law is really the only gift you need." Gift it as a stocking stuffer or early holiday present so she can hang it on the tree in the leadup to Christmas.

Stylish Leather Tote

If it's about time she was treated to a new purse, now's your chance. We love this luxe Italian leather tote for its timeless style, roomy interior and clever structured design. Make it a personalized gift for your mother-in-law by splurging a little extra dough on a monogram.

Holiday Serving Set

If you're looking for Christmas gifts for the mother-in-law who has everything, go for something personalized. We bet she doesn't have a pretty seasonal serving tray printed with her family name and a special location. Or, how about a set of matching coasters? Each piece displays a snowy winter scene that'll instantly put guests in the holiday mood. You can buy the tray or coaster set separately or nab both for under $100.

Goldbelly Gift Card

Any self-proclaimed foodie will be seriously excited by a gift card for Goldbelly. The site plays host to a bunch of talented culinary experts, from bakeries and patisseries to farms and steakhouses. She can have her favorite sweet and savory creations shipped right to her door from anywhere in the country.

Plush Cotton Robe

It doesn't get much cozier than this cult-favorite bathrobe. After all, it's made by a brand built around "all things soft and wonderful." We also love the color options: hotel-worthy white, a cool greenish-blue, pretty blush, neutral fawn and modern stone gray.

Heirloom Recipe Book

You definitely don't have to break the bank to get your hands on a meaningful present for your mom-in-law. Let her know you love coming around for dinner by giving her a personalized recipe book full of blank pages for jotting down signature dishes. The book looks like it belongs on a library shelf in a fairytale thanks to the leather antique-style cover. It's available with blank or lined pages and there are six different color options for the cover.

Amazing Massage Tool

Whether you're looking for Christmas gift ideas for your mother-in-law, something for her birthday or a memorable Mother's Day present, we're big fans of the Theragun. This amazing massage tool is powerful, easy to use and ultra quiet to boot. It's a complete game changer.

Luxe Silk Loungewear

If you came here looking for luxury gifts for your mother-in-law, she's one lucky mama. Our top suggestion? A pair of soft, silky PJs from Lunya. The brand's fancy loungewear is popular for a reason: It's breathable, thermoregulating and even better, machine-washable! This chic set consists of a sleeveless V-neck top and tapered trousers.

DIY Knitting Project

Subscription services are excellent gifts for your MIL, especially if you can find one that reflects her favorite hobby. This one's for the mom who knows her way around a pair of knitting needles. Every four weeks for 10 months, she'll receive the yarn and pattern to create three stripes of an afghan. The subscription ends on the 11th month with instructions on how to complete the blanket.

Dainty Pearl Necklace

Pearl jewelry is a great gift for your mother-in-law for two reasons: First of all, pearls are a beautiful and timeless accessory, and secondly, they've been thought to help strengthen relationships. This delicate necklace is made from small cultured pearls collected from oysters and freshwater mussels. An 18-karat gold vermeil sterling silver chain adds a luxe finishing touch.

Houseplant Subscription

Does your MIL have a green thumb? If she's always helping you out with your plant dilemmas, this cool subscription service is a great way to return the favor. Each month, she'll receive some vibrant new greenery complete with a decorative ceramic pot.

Digital Reading Device

Technology can be a thoughtful gift for your mother-in-law if you choose something you know she'll get plenty of use out of. Consider this gift bundle for any bookworm who still doesn't own a Kindle (or is in need of an upgrade). It includes a Kindle Paperwhite, power adapter and protective fabric cover in black, blue or pink.

Comforting Scented Candle

Aerangis' "The Beginning" candle boasts a perfectly balanced scent that combines fresh, floral notes of jasmine and orchid with warm notes of sandalwood and musk. This delightful fragrance is inspired by the maker's childhood memories of helping their grandfather tend to his orchid collection. It's also cruelty-free, non-toxic and made from plant-based materials. There's complimentary shipping on all orders over $75, so you might want to nab a couple for yourself while you're at it.

Travel Wine Tumbler

Let your MIL know how much she means to you with this beautiful tumbler that says: "Best mother-in-law ever." It's a sweet and simple gift that'll bring a smile to her face every time she uses it. While she'll appreciate this present on any occasion, we think it's an extra-special Mother's Day gift idea since it celebrates her "mother-in-law" title.

Delicious Cookie Box

Wondering what to get her for the holidays? Let her know just how grateful you are that she's your MIL with these delicious and adorably decorated cookies. They're the kind of sweet-hearted gesture that could really lift her up this Hanukkah.

Heartfelt Keepsake Dish

This sweet trinket box literally thanks your MIL for raising the love of your life. There's a version that reads, "Thank you for raising the man of my dreams" and another that says, "Thank you for raising an incredible woman." She can use the keepsake box to store trinkets for years to come.

Self-Heating Mug

Want in on one of the best Christmas gifts for your mother-in-law? With cold weather comes the season of hot drinks—we're talking pumpkin spice lattes, flavorful loose-leaf teas and hearty hot chocolates. This clever coffee mug will make sure all of her favorite drinks stay at the temperature of her choosing, regardless of the temperature outside.

Confetti Birthday Cake

A homemade cake is one of the best birthday gifts for any mother-in-law because it shows you went the extra mile to help her celebrate. With that in mind, no one said it had to be homemade by you… Milk Bar has achieved global fame for its incredible desserts, meaning this colorful cake might just top every other birthday treat that came before. Trust us, she'll be lining up for a second slice.

Pampering Gift Box

How about a gift basket for your mother-in-law to pamper herself with? This one includes two bath bombs, lavender soap, peppermint-shea lip balm, a lavender-scented candle and more. The box is also printed with a heartfelt message addressed to "my other mother." How sweet!

Fresh Flower Delivery

If you're looking for birthday gift ideas for your mother-in-law, a bouquet of bright pink blooms is sure to put a smile on her face. She'll be over the moon when she opens the door to receive this thoughtful surprise. The bouquet includes 24 stems of vibrant queen's crown roses and comes with a sachet of flower food so they last as long as possible. Select the gift button before adding them to your cart so you can include a personal message.

Meaningful Scented Candle

Remind her why she means so much to you with this meaningful candle. It comes in a jar printed with the definition of a mother-in-law as someone who gives advice, love and inspiration. Choose from six delightful fragrances or opt for an unscented candle if your MIL isn't a fan of strong smells.

Examples of Things to Give

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